Forums General chat Feel like an idiot Reply To: Feel like an idiot January 25, 2018 at 12:29 pm #321 don 18 Posts The mother of the baby seems to have taken her stance and behaviors from her own family Is your son named on the birth certificate, as it may well make it easier for him to gain contact with his son on his release? It may be that he has to see his child in a contact centre to begin with, but it is unusual for the courts to not allow a parent any contact with their child, unless they are a proven risk to children, which I understand your son isn’t. I do hope you get to spend some time with your grandson